How was she to reconcile men's desire with the desire to be beautiful in their eyes? At first she had tried for a compromise (desperate journeys abroad, where nobody knew her and no indiscretion could betray her); then, later on, she had gone radical and sacrificed her erotic life to her beauty. Milan Kundera
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There is a fine balance between the need to be beautiful, and the desire to be desired. When women become too beautiful, society takes issue with their beauty. They are seen as morally reprehensible because it is said that they are not attractive enough to deserve attention. However, when women stop trying to be beautiful, society takes issue with their sexuality. They are seen as morally reprehensible because they are not desirable enough to warrant attention.

Source: Ignorance

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